Decisions and visions of others for internals co-create their lives. Choosing the best allies is what is required. Your ally needs to be your best advocate in life.
We often forget about ourselves as internal people. We think for others, we achieve for them, and we fulfill their dreams. Being great to oneself means to come back to you, do your best for you. Can you?
What is an Internal Self? It is the being who is in the state. It is not processing, not interacting, not analyzing, not even expressing itself. It is the being who is.
I am a giver. What if I shift my focus from others to me. What if I give to me? I am a caretaker, what if I care for me? I love people, what if I love me? What transformation will I invoke within? What if I am?
After a conversation with someone who I love but I don't have, they pointed out without really saying it that I am not good enough to be with them even though they recognized the connection. This is the second time that the no came.